indianz.com your internet resource indianz.com on facebook indianz.com on twitter indianz.com on Google+ indianz.com on soundcloud
phone: 202 630 8439
Native American Bank - Native people investing in Native communities
Advertise on Indianz.Com
Home > News > Headlines
Print   Subscribe
Jay LaPlante: Letting the grudges go for a better community

Filed Under: Opinion
More on: jay laplante
     

"Historically, Native people valued relationships. Today in tribal communities, we have hundreds of relatives related by blood and not. Some we know well; others, we know only by name; and many, we don’t know at all.

Some people we know too well. With them, we are champion grudge-holders. Ask yourself, “Have I been holding this grudge since 1975? 1998?” Even holding a grudge from last week is too long. What happened to creating and maintaining strong, healthy relationships with our relatives and community members?

Our ancestors lived by values of generosity and compassion. Certainly, they got angry at one another, but they then practiced forgiveness. When letting go of resentments was hard, they talked to someone or were doctored in a ceremony. Forgiveness heals but resentment morphs into hateful attitudes and actions. Grudges kill relationships. They kill families. So, too, they kill good community efforts for social change."

Get the Story:
Jay LaPlante: On Forgiveness: Let the Grudge Go for Community Change (Indian Country Today 11/24)


Copyright © Indianz.Com
More headlines...
Stay Connected:
On Facebook

On Twitter

On Google+

On SoundCloud
Local Links:
Federal Register | Indian Gaming | Jobs & Notices | In The Hoop | Message Board
Latest News:
Native Sun News Today: Standing Rock Sioux in fight for 'our lives' (9/30)
Editorial: Oglala Sioux Tribe keeps members in the dark on gaming (9/30)
Lawmakers take action on Native youth and Indian Country bills (9/29)
Dakota Access enlists big name law firm ahead of court hearing (9/29)
Congress goes on break again after failing to pass spending bills (9/29)
Oklahoma lawmakers push for approval of tribal water rights deal (9/29)
Documents detail settlement amounts in tribal trust fund lawsuit (9/29)
Supreme Court accepts case involving Mohegan Tribe employee (9/29)
Supreme Court accepts case linked to NFL team's racist mascot (9/29)
Lakota Country Times: Powwow, Indian relay unite for big event (9/29)
Native Sun News Today: Meet the world's only Lakota magician (9/29)
Dave Archambault Sr.: The roots of the battle at Standing Rock (9/29)
Jim Kent: A tale of two warriors comes alive in sacred Black Hills (9/29)
Mary Annette Pember: Water protectors rounded up for praying (9/29)
Dina Gilio-Whitaker: A model for tribal consultation with UNDRIP (9/29)
Chukchansi Tribe schedules election for three council positions (9/29)
Seneca Nation prepares for tribal council election in November (9/29)
Donald Trump hired firm to lobby for tribal casino deal in Florida (9/29)
Bureau of Indian Affairs faced pressure to approve gaming deal (9/29)
Graton Rancheria eyes November opening for $175M casino hotel (9/29)
House approves national water bill without #NoDAPL amendment (9/28)
County sheriff announces additional arrests of #NoDAPL resisters (9/28)
Mary Annette Pember: Sheriff is looking into reports of 'gunshots' (9/28)
Ute Tribe mounts battle against 'modern day Indian land grab' bill (9/28)
Field hearing scheduled on energy development in Indian Country (9/28)
Native American Financial Services Association hires new director (9/28)
Lakota Country Times: Thank you ceremony honors Black Elk Peak (9/28)
Native Sun News Today: Northern Cheyenne Tribe election season (9/28)
James Giago Davies: Oceti Sakowin assert sovereignty once again (9/28)
Mark Fogarty: Young Native journalists cover historic movement (9/28)
Peter d'Errico: Briefcase warriors must defend original nations (9/28)
Seminole Tribe removes James Billie from chairman's position (9/28)
Mashpee Wampanoag Tribe granted role in casino land dispute (9/28)
more headlines...

Home | Arts & Entertainment | Business | Canada | Cobell Lawsuit | Education | Environment | Federal Recognition | Federal Register | Forum | Health | Humor | Indian Gaming | Indian Trust | Jack Abramoff Scandal | Jobs & Notices | Law | National | News | Opinion | Politics | Sports | Technology | World

Indianz.Com Terms of Service | Indianz.Com Privacy Policy
About Indianz.Com | Advertise on Indianz.Com

Indianz.Com is a product of Noble Savage Media, LLC and Ho-Chunk, Inc.